I have been asked “What is the difference between a Submissive and a Slave, as this can be confusing to those new to the scene. The difference between a submissive and a slave is not always clear cut and is often the subject of controversy within the lifestyle. 

In general, a submissive maintains a certain distance fr... Read More

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So, I completely understand that this is going to cause a lot of contreversy, and it's really not my intention.  Just as retarded, worthless, (enter Your favorite adjective here) subs/slaves are a dime a dozen; so to are good looking women.  Please bring something else to the table!  There, i said it! Whew!!! 

Now that i've put this out there, i fully understand i'm opening myself up to criticism.  If I can dish it, I can take it!

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As many of you know, I am moving to Cuba with My husband. He is in the Navy and being restationed there. So I will not be on the internet if much at all until Janurary. Right now I'm in a hotel room until Dec. 5th. The movers picked up all of our stuff to be shipped yesterday. On the 5th I will be going to My mother's house, and last time I talked to her she does not have internet. I will miss all the Ladies and boys on here. And I hope everyone has a very happy holiday season.

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In my years on the scene I have been involved in cyber and online Domination and a few years ago I met a sub online. At first we spent hours talking all the hours for weeks and months as he was so far away it was going to take a lot of effort to meet up. I felt there was nothing that we could not share with each other. I argued with friends that a relationship online is just as strong as any other relationship, and that Ds online is just as powerful... Read More

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And it's turning out to be the best birthday ever!! I think every year it just gets better

My site is unofficially up and almost done!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAY!! I can't remember if I'm allowed to post the link here, so if you want to check it out go to My profile and find the link to it

I'll be around off and on until My birthday celebrations are over, and then I can get started on sorting My Giftmas plans..


minus the snow, it really is the most wonderful time of the year (... Read More

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I had a two-and-a-half hour booking with a gentleman last night that proved to be truly epic. I enjoy longer sessions, as they allow me to establish a more relaxed flow to the activities we engage in, but this one really went beyond what I expected.

I gave him a cleansing enema and left him to shower, meeting him in the Main Dungeon. I kicked back in the throne and ordered him to worship my boots, polishing every inch of them with his tongue and paying special attention to the buckles.... Read More

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Over the past week I've seen two gentlemen for fisting sessions, both very different.

The first was a gentleman I only get to see around once a year, as he travels from quite some distance. His fantasy is to be kept plugged and ready for fisting at all times, and he is quite disturbingly talented when it comes to fitting things into his ass. He prepares for his sessions ahead of time, and arrived cleaned and plugged. By the time I met him in the Dungeon he had replaced the plug in his... Read More

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I don't know if I have anything thought provoking, but the world of BDSM has changed just like the world of business.  Web 2.0 have had an enormous impact on both - creating relationsphis with companies and their customers, and Dommes and their subs/slaves.  The question I pose to all of you is this, what kind of connections do you envision in the next round of social networking - Web 3.0, if You will?

How do You see it affecting Your businesses, and Your connections with You... Read More

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