Yep, there is a definite difference between Fin and Pro Dommes. Even when one person does it all, we know when what behavior is appropriate and what isn't. At the same time, just because someone lists themselves as Pro, Fin or Lifestyle doesn't mean they actually know a toss about it. I learn something new everyday, and if I stopped learning I would think that something is terribly wrong, as we can never know it all.
For me, the sign of a good Domme, is one that admits what she doesn't know.
I think I've given my....4 cents by now :)

denial wrote: I agree that its great site,one of the better ones I have found.However I get the feeling that all of the dommes just want subs money and dont want to do anything.Now I am not suggesting thats true,thats just the feeling I get when I log on.I surely hope that this post does not offend anyone at all,if you are a financial domme thats fine.A lot of guys are into that I suppose.In closing,I would like to thank all of you that have submitted input on this post and hope to see others opinions soon.

i just came across this and i know many males on here are VERY turned off by a lot of the Dommes swarming them soon as they get on and only talking to them for $$. that certainly is NOT even close to what this site is about.

I am always looking to get a good mix of Lifestyle and PRO Dommes. even though i have a Financial Domme status on the site, i dont believe there is any such thing. Thats like saying youre a Bondage Domme or a Cbt Domme. it doesnt make sense.

Financial Domination is a fetish not a type of Domme. Some are into it and some arent. We definately need more balance as we have so many damned instadommes that have pics of them with $$ and things but i dont see one slave or bdsm toy or anything d/s related in their pics.

I will say this, i understand your point, but for real if you want to find a Domnme, fill out your damned profile, lol. these ladies put so much into their profiles and its disrespectfull when a sub wants to meet them but have 3 or four sentences on their profile just so they can come on and perv...

admin wrote: I will say this, i understand your point, but for real if you want to find a Domnme, fill out your damned profile, lol. these ladies put so much into their profiles and its disrespectfull when a sub wants to meet them but have 3 or four sentences on their profile just so they can come on and perv...

Yes we do make a lot of effort with our profiles, as Admin said above. I'm still of the mindset that unfilled out subs profiles, whom then send a friends add AFTER reading another Ladies FILLED out profile is disrespectful. I'm STILL receiving add requests from those with unfilled profiles as I'm sure the other Ladies do too. I deny them and leave a comment saying why. Yet other Ladies are accepting these adds from unfilled profile members, surely that is encouraging them to be arse lazy? Come on Ladies stick together and DON'T accept them! If we ALL did that is might make them think about it and fill out at least minimal details. Are you still going to be deleting the unfilled profile members or the ones that join then never log back in Admin?