can we forget about all the money for a few and try two help real slaves get hooked up with real dommes. would say that 95% of the males on this site don't want to log on and get hit up for money right of the bat...I say get to know each other,become friends and when the two of you are in private,you can discuss all the other details.etc

If that does not work out,try again,for it is hard to find a good slave or mistress and doesn't always work out

Just Keep Trying

I can definitely see where you're coming from... and I agree in that compatibility is the most important thing. I would hope that people would have a multitude of interest that could connect them to one another. There are real Dommes out there, and that can include ones who are Pros and Fins. So if that is your kink, I would challenge you to take the time to fill out your profile as suggested by Eva, and take the time to read someone else's profile and search for those commonalities as opposed to perving at their pics ;). Getting involved with the site through blogs, chats, and forum threads like this one are also great ways to get noticed. So, keep up the effort and I am sure you will find something soon.

It can be difficult on both sides. I think there are some things which a Domme or sub may do that are underhanded, and that taints everyone else of the same orientation.
All good things take time, so you cannot give up on something that means something special.

Amen on all counts!! yeah it does help to get to know each other first. some of would do anything for the right Domme and i am sure that they are out there. we all just have to look.

Any site of this nature is inevitably going to have its share of women demanding tributes for contact, and conversely many men making lewd, sycophantic or simply pointless approaches

Generally in the short time I've been a member of this site I've found it to be far better than a lot of altenative BDSM networking sites for having some genuine discussions and getting to know people

I think the way it lets you write up as much as you want about personal interests, attitudes, and what you are hoping to find, as well as listing turn ons and turn offs, makes for a much more genuine starting point for approaching people. Who knows, but I'm hoping to make some friends here, and I doubt I'm alone in that, so with enough people inevitably wanting the same some proper connctions are sure to happen amongst along the way

a_nonney_mouse wrote: Any site of this nature is inevitably going to have its share of women demanding tributes for contact, and conversely many men making lewd, sycophantic or simply pointless approaches Generally in the short time I've been a member of this site I've found it to be far better than a lot of altenative BDSM networking sites for having some genuine discussions and getting to know people I think the way it lets you write up as much as you want about personal interests, attitudes, and what you are hoping to find, as well as listing turn ons and turn offs, makes for a much more genuine starting point for approaching people. Who knows, but I'm hoping to make some friends here, and I doubt I'm alone in that, so with enough people inevitably wanting the same some proper connctions are sure to happen amongst along the way

Agreed, I think this site is wonderful, has lots to offer, a wide variety of folks with different interests, and I've enjoyed making many friends on here. I truly love the blogs, forums, n such.. it gives us a way to share and help each other learn new things :)

I agree that its great site,one of the better ones I have found.However I get the feeling that all of the dommes just want subs money and dont want to do anything.Now I am not suggesting thats true,thats just the feeling I get when I log on.I surely hope that this post does not offend anyone at all,if you are a financial domme thats fine.A lot of guys are into that I suppose.In closing,I would like to thank all of you that have submitted input on this post and hope to see others opinions soon.

I Agree MQE as I always do!! This site is the Best! There are many different types of Dom/mes and slaves/subs here with a wide variety of kinks and ranging from beginners to Advanced on either side of the chains... I have met some awesome People on here and have lots of friends to share and connect with!
However, let U/us not forget if meeting the "Right" person were easy it would not be worth it and W/we would not recognize how special that someone really is when W/we find them!It's worth the time and effort spent!!
Mistress Annastasia XxX

mistressannastasia32 wrote: I Agree MQE as I always do!! This site is the Best! There are many different types of Dom/mes and slaves/subs here with a wide variety of kinks and ranging from beginners to Advanced on either side of the chains... I have met some awesome People on here and have lots of friends to share and connect with! However, let U/us not forget if meeting the "Right" person were easy it would not be worth it and W/we would not recognize how special that someone really is when W/we find them!It's worth the time and effort spent!! Mistress Annastasia XxX

Exactly, if the search was easy, it'd not be near as interesting or exciting... would be boring to me actually lol. The least I walk away with is friendship, if there's not a deeper connection, oh well, at least I've gained another friend to talk with.. when the connection is there, it's well worth the wait, exploring, searching and many obstacles in the way, because its rewarding, fullfilling and an experience I'd not exchange for any other :)

One can't have too many friends... or can they? LOL If they can, I probably hit that mark many moons ago, but what the hell, I like to live on the edge, so Im never tired of making new friends! lol

Hugssssss Annastasia, its so good to see you!! I've missed ya!

MissEva wrote: oops I am an absolute ass, I quoted the wrong one. Sorry....

I was going to say, what did I do wrong? :(

MsQueenEvil wrote: mistressannastasia32 wrote: I Agree MQE as I always do!! This site is the Best! There are many different types of Dom/mes and slaves/subs here with a wide variety of kinks and ranging from beginners to Advanced on either side of the chains... I have met some awesome People on here and have lots of friends to share and connect with! However, let U/us not forget if meeting the "Right" person were easy it would not be worth it and W/we would not recognize how special that someone really is when W/we find them!It's worth the time and effort spent!! Mistress Annastasia XxX Exactly, if the search was easy, it'd not be near as interesting or exciting... would be boring to me actually lol. The least I walk away with is friendship, if there's not a deeper connection, oh well, at least I've gained another friend to talk with.. when the connection is there, it's well worth the wait, exploring, searching and many obstacles in the way, because its rewarding, fullfilling and an experience I'd not exchange for any other :) One can't have too many friends... or can they? LOL If they can, I probably hit that mark many moons ago, but what the hell, I like to live on the edge, so Im never tired of making new friends! lol Hugssssss Annastasia, its so good to see you!! I've missed ya!

I am soo glad to be back!! I missed you all!!! *Hugz*