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Good R/T Experiences?
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Dec 05 2007, 12:13 pm - By Mistress_Elle


There is no real question to answer this time, more of a curiosity on my part. I'm wondering how many people from here have met other members in real life and had a good experience? I would love to know how long you corresponded, where you met, how you felt about it. I'm a wee bit nosy, but I'm also incredibly interested in the impact that this site has had in people's real lives.
Let's hear about your experiences, and I may have one to post for you eventually :)
I love the control, almost as much as you love to give it to me.
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Dec 05 2007, 1:17 pm - Replied by: MsQueenEvil


I've met quite a few from online, and always had good experiences. The time frame in which I wait, depends on the person Im conversing with. footy and I met after we talked for a year, not because either of us felt the need to wait, it was just a scheduling thing lol. With footy, we met at subway, not for lunch, but just so I could lead him to My house. I had no problems having him at My house the first time, We had already established our relationship, and as I said, we had conversed for a year. I trusted him completely, but I never do that with anyone else. A public place is where I generally meet them, even if we've decided we'll do a little play, we meet first at a public venue, then go from there, depending on how we felt after meeting initially.
It means, you trust Her, with all your vulnerabilities
Dec 05 2007, 1:57 pm - Replied by: MistressMadame


I have met with slaves that I met online, none of which from this site however. Some have worked out, some have not. But the ones that did are so far proving to be a great experience. As for the details, what Elle, you expect Me to whip and tell?
Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another (literally)... However, deprived is the man who lives only to serve himself.
Dec 05 2007, 3:30 pm - Replied by: Mistress_Elle


Yes, whip and tell all the juicy details!

Actually I've met some others in the past from other websites...I'm just wondering what you guys have experienced.
I love the control, almost as much as you love to give it to me.
Dec 05 2007, 9:42 pm - Replied by: SultrySin


In the past I have had good and bad experiences meeting people from the net. I did have a very funny experience once. It was with someone I met from an online personal ad. We lived in the same city so after the initial email we spoke on the telephone a few times and decided to meet for a drink one night at a local place. Since the meeting was rather fast it never dawned on me to ask for a photo. He just gave me a physical description (I did the same), and told me what he would be wearing so I would know it was him.

That night I arrived at the bar before he did purposely and took a place at the bar so I could watch the door. The time we set to meet came and went and I was thinking, ok this guy is going to be a no-show and figured I would give him 5 more minutes. After glancing at the clock I noticed this really hot guy walking in the door looking around and he was wearing black suit, blue shirt which is what the guy I was meeting was supposed to be wearing. I thought to myself, this is too good to be true, this guy is actually hunky. He took a seat at the bar on the opposite side from where I was. I thought hmmm perhaps he doesn't see me, it was rather dark inside. He kept looking at the door as if he was waiting for someone and I decided it had to be him so I approached him. I walked up to him and he smiled and I said " Is your name _________. He laughed and said "no, but it can be anything you want it to be". Such a typical male answer. I smiled back and said no thanks I was waiting for someone else. He laughed again and said, well if you change your mind... I walked back to my place at the bar to pay my tab. As I was getting ready to walk out the door this short, fat, balding, almost toothless, Quasimodo looking guy walks in and beeline's for me. All the while Mr. Hunky was watching me with a huge grin on his face. Quasimodo attempted to kiss me hello and I about lost it. I said to him in a very loud obnoxious voice that not only was he late and far too ugly to look at, someone else had gained my attention. I walked away and told Mr. Hunky he could buy me a drink. Quasimodo followed me around the bar and began wimpering and begging me to talk to him and I told him that he wasn't even worthy of licking the dirt off the soles of my shoes.
Mr. Hunky was getting a good laugh out of this and we just started laughing at the pity of it all.

The moral of the story is, Mr. Hunky was vanilla and I wasn't interested but he served a purpose that night. The next night, Quasimodo called and asked if we could do it again. He loved the humiliation of it all. I just had to laugh and hang up.

Sometimes, you just gotta laugh.
Sinfulicious
Dec 25 2007, 12:32 am - Replied by: badboy4fem2020


never had the luck yet to meet a Mistress from a website for R/T. but cant wait to someday. i think it would be great with a site like this because getting to know someone and their likes and dislikes
helps. plus a big
helpis getting to know some great people also..
bad boy in need of discipline and training..
Dec 31 2007, 11:37 am - Replied by: MzVixen


I met my pet Jason on another site which was hard due to that site being more vanilla than FemDom. I had posted some pics in my leather chaps and after he read alot of my forum posts, he decided to write me. We chatted for a bit getting to know one another and shared desires. He then wrote an awesome story how he submitted to me, also with alot of our "kinks" and a few months later I got on a plane and flew to Denver from Biloxi, MS. I was treated like the Queen I am the whole week and I took my lil sub with my strap on and he's been mine ever since! 4 months after that trip I moved to Colorado to live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle with my slutty bitch to train him more intensely!
MzVixen
Dec 31 2007, 4:23 pm - Replied by: Mistress_Elle



MzVixen wrote:
I met my pet Jason on another site which was hard due to that site being more vanilla than FemDom. I had posted some pics in my leather chaps and after he read alot of my forum posts, he decided to write me. We chatted for a bit getting to know one another and shared desires. He then wrote an awesome story how he submitted to me, also with alot of our "kinks" and a few months later I got on a plane and flew to Denver from Biloxi, MS. I was treated like the Queen I am the whole week and I took my lil sub with my strap on and he's been mine ever since! 4 months after that trip I moved to Colorado to live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle with my slutty bitch to train him more intensely!

Awww that's so sweet! I'm so glad to hear some great stories!
I love the control, almost as much as you love to give it to me.
Jan 29 2008, 11:42 am - Replied by: undergroundsea


I have met most people through in person introductions at various BDSM events across the country. There are some people of whom I came to know online and then met in person because we both happened to be at the same event. Less so, especially in recent years, I have set up a formal meeting with someone whom I had met online. Still, the majority of each type of introduction has been good.

As for this site, I have not met anyone whom I came to know through this site. I have, however, met several people elsewhere who are also on this site.

Cheers,

Sea
Bound for Bliss
Jan 29 2008, 6:22 pm - Replied by: aidan


I've met Lady WickedAngel many times since we met online almost two years ago, and I personally have loved every visit. :) 

I've gotten to cook, clean, massage, and just sit quietly with Her and converse. It's always been a pleasure. :) 

"I'm not a knight in shining armor; I'm a ranger in ruddy leather."
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