I normally go through a fetish work sheet, medical history, and  a couple of other things before I even consider a session with a client.

Have you noticed how many of them think it is the fast food sort of service they might expect from an escort?

 

My process is relative to My mood, My connection with the sub, and the venus through which I Dominate.  When in lifestyle mode, I do generally take a lot of time to get to know a sub, however, when I am out to get My rocks off, I tend to take less time with a person, especially online.  R/t is always different, but yes, I get a lot of interested fetishists who tend to want the instant gratifiation that I am not generally interested or comfortable giving w/o at least knowing some of the basics about them.

I agree many think that they are ordering a pizza, so they state what they want and all the toppings, and then they say that its whatever the Mistress desires...hah!! Is it really.