So, I made a post a while back about sissy safety. I had a sub who wanted to hook up with random men on craigslist to provide oral sex to them and swallow their cum. I posted My concern on various sites, and got some helpful responses. What it came down to is that, if I am going to be a good Mistress and keep My subbie safe, then I am supposed to make sure he gets medical records from potential penises, and also be sure they use a condom during oral. Of course I don't want to be responsible (even in part) for anyone's illness, but this made it way more difficult then it already was for this sub to get a penis to suck.
And aside from sissification and forced bi, I also love tease and denial. Me and one of My current subs were having a great time keeping him denied for very prolonged periods of time. I was even considering not allowing him cummies ever again. But we've been doing research on prostate health, and apparently it isn't "good" to let all the cummies build up inside without release, because it could cause prostate issues. I know that when he gets "too full," he experiences lolstreamz (rivulets of semen that come out of the penis without any experience of pleasure), and he also has a lot of teardrops (precum), but I am not sure this is enough to keep his prostate healthy. Meanwhile, prostate milking (rectal massage used to induce ejaculation without actual orgasm) is one of his limits.
So now I feel like I have to let him make cummies (at least occassionally) so that there is less of a chance of prostate problems. And this sucks, because I don't *want* him to make cummies. I suppose I can allow ruined orgasms on occassion (in which he'd have to stop touching as soon as orgasm hits, allowing the semen to dribble out without the feeling of orgasm), but I'd rather not even allow that.
It just sucks that we have to think about disease and illness when it comes to these erotic things. I mean, even with just vanilla sex. Erotic experience would flow so much more easily if we didn't have to say, "Oh wait, we need a condom" or "Nono, don't do that with your fingers, it could cause infection!"
Ah well, I suppose it is part of life. If I am going to keep Myself and My subbies safe, then stuff is going to be a little annoying.
