Ok... First let me start by saying I mean no disrespect for what I am about to say... I would just love some more info. on Financial Domination . I am just trying to understand it better & would Love to hear some advice on it. From what I have seen of it I just get turned off of it more... ( It could be just that someone brought me into it the wrong way ) I have some reason's that I am turned off by it so far . I just reasonly dated someone who wipe my bank account twice of about $ 1600 . I was so pissed... I almost lost my house over the deal, because I could not pay rent that month. Thankfuly I am renting a house from one of my best friends who gave me a chance to pay it & catch up . I Have always paid my rent and never went thru anything like this. We traded some work out and I paid  a little X~tra when I could . At any rate I am the one paying for her little fling or whatever the Hell it was . What really hurt the most was comeing to my  best friend & saying that I did not have the rent . But That is a whole differnt story...

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    Another  reason is, I rember  going thru school in the 9 th grade  and giving this girl my lunch money around $ 2.00 a day Just to try to get her to like me.... My dumbed mistake... I rember being so hungry & sick from not eating. But Like I say, This girl was a Goddess & I would of done anthing for her.

   Reason no. 3 is It just blow's my mind how some of these dom's will not give you the time of day unless you send them money.They want to know how much first thing, whithout even getting to know you Or even act like they want to get to know you...This just scares me and turns me off  even more... I Have seen so many scams & heard just about it all to get me to send money .

   I am not a Wanker, time waster or cheep Bast. Or a broke ass Bitch... Nor Am I am I rich man ...(Lol) But , I work very hard for my money... And I can not afford to throw it away just for a little attention . I am just not going to buy someon's Love . I treat ladies whith all respect and feel I do not have too spend my soul to show them how much I respect them.

  So could anyone shed a little more light on this that I might could change my mind on this ??? I would be so thankful to hear good & Bad experience on this to understand better.... I am not saying that I could not get into this... But only the right way

   Thank You For your time & Your Replies... 

Financial Domination, has little to do with someone stealing money from your account.  All acts are consensual, and it usually isn't until the morning after that subs MAY feel remorse for their deviant indulgences... Nevertheless, responsibility airs on the subs side to make sure they communicate their interests, limits etc, with someone they feel they can trust.  Of course, that doesn't eliminate the possibility of being conned, butit greatly reducesthat risk.  If you communicate with the Domme, then you can act based on compatibility and not just scene lust.  If the Domme is a right fit for you, then you will be able to tell after a few convos.  But nevertheless, someone stealing money from your account has noting to do with what you are asking.  Sorry to hear your Ex got over on you, but now you know to better protect yourself in that regard.

 

Anyways, there are lots of legitmate resources out there on the financal fetish world, domination being a sect of that, that can help you dicern your interests and disinterests with the engagement.  Like anything, it's not anyone's job to inform you on anything you are considering participating in, other than your own... so, google some resources and I can tell you some in private if you like, but my only concern is wasting My time trying to explain something I am passionate about to some who isn't trying to hear what I have to say. So, hopefully, you are inquiring for the right reasons, and not for the sake of justifying your stance and/or ignorance.

 

To be honest, most people are into the lifestyle/kink w/o even knowing it... if you don't like FinDom, it's not the practice you dislike as much as it is the marketing of it in popular culture... but, it really is a very pure form of interaction as far as D/s is concerned because it gives the Domme real power over the sub.  subs and slaves looking to experience real sacrifice should be willing to submit more than just their time and energy into a relationship and conversely, any Domme claiming to want to control a sub's finances should be able to prove Her Dominanceby doing more than just taking from the sub... though, taking IS half the fun .