In light of what happened this afternoon in the chat i have been doing some research into the Domm/Sub relationship.
This relationship is not one that blossoms immediately as it is like any relationship it needs time to grow. As i have been in a domme/sub relationship now since February 2008 i can now look back at the beginning and now see why Mistress Madame had me and other slaves of her's under consideration.
The first is to see if "we" the sissy or slave really want it as when we make that final decision and make no mistake it is as a sissy or slave's final decision as we give ourselves to our Mistresses or decide it is not for us, atleast with that particular Mistress.
Secondly from the Mistresses point of view it gives her an insite into the thoughts and behavior paterns of the sissy/slave and how they would react under most conditions. I say most, as because we are only human there will be times when we react differently. Also gives the Mistress the opportunity to decide whether or not the sissy/slave is worth her time and effort.
Thirdly from a sissy/slaves perspective it gives us the opportunity to learn to trust our Mistress and know without being told we did well or in some cases we disappointed our Mistresses. As any Domme/sub relationship has to be built on trust. Trust that the Domme will not physically harm the sub, and that the sub once turned over to the Domme will obey without question.
This is not meant negatively against anyone, it is just me and my thinkings this afternoon, as i have taken time to reflect.
It has also given me time to reflect on my Mistress, and i will tell anyone that listens, in my bias opinion i have the best Mistress i could ever hope to have.
Tammy
