Dear Goddess Lycia,

i love all forms of communication from You, whether they consist of requests, teasing or casual conversation.  There is a special thrill, however, when You are manipulative, and i wonder wihy this is the case.

By manipulation, i don't refer to complete sneakiness.  i'm referring to Your accomplishing a result by a more indirect means than just ordering something to be so.  Some examples are the Hypnofeet video, where You create a fetish for Your feet through visualization of them with a soft, sexy narrative;  another video where You create a fetish for Your kissies;  the Payment Plan recording, where You connect Your arousal to tribute; and when You have me perform tasks where i don't know how You will use them against me.

i get incredibly aroused when i know You are manipulating me.  i get this feeling just before the manipulation starts; during the manipulation; and when i discover later that i've been manipulated.  i get the feeling very strongly during Your hypnotic inductions on the phone, as You peel away my defenses and i know You're about to embed new information in my subconscious mind, the nature of which is unknown to me.

Do You find that others feel this way?  i wonder why Your getting Your way is more arousing to me when You approach it indirectly rather than directly?  In ordinarly life, i often find manipulative behavior to be despicable.  Why is it so becoming to a Goddess?

Most of the time I don't even realize I am being manipulative...I guess it's just natural ;-)

In My experience, men like to be erotically manipulated. A lot of subbies I've spoken with have a desire to be "hypnotized without them knowing it" and to "have fetishes created" for them.

Also, most men I've spoken with prefer indirect means of achieved arousal. For instance, mistakingly catching a glimpse of a Lady's garter belt can be more arousing than seeing a porn with two people completely naked and doing sex.

When people see things coming, things are boring. And bluntness gets old, too. So, you are not alone, luvtease. MANY men like subtle manipulation and seduction, as well as brainwashing and erotic trickiness.