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Domme and female sub
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Jan 14 2008, 10:50 pm - By Mistress_Elle


So this has come up with me a few times recently. I have little experience with female subs, in any fetish. I have scened with other Dommes, occasionally a switch, and only have played with a female a couple of times. I am interested in maybe learning some new things with women, but the lack of experience makes me pause.
Sexuality/anatomical differences aside, is there a difference with playing with another woman? If you don't play with other women, why not? Do you think there is a lack of female subs for Dommes generally or in certain fetishes?
I'm thinking of my own answers to these questions as I type, so what are yours?
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Jan 14 2008, 11:04 pm - Replied by: MsQueenEvil


Im much the same way with a female as I am with a male, in the sense I really need a connection there. I've only found that with 2 female subs so far, and have enjoyed what we shared. One is/was strictly just online, we share a very strong bond. The other is a switch, who I've been close to for years.

She came to visit 2 yrs ago and we spent some time together, and loved it! She finds it difficult to submit to most, but feels naturally submissive around me.

I don't seek out female subs, I tend to just let nature take its course and if it feels right, go with the flow of it. Then again Im the same way with males. There's a difference with both sides and I enjoy them both, with the right person(s).
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Jan 15 2008, 7:12 pm - Replied by: mistressannastasia32


I agree fully about the letting nature take it's course..I don't really "look" for male or female subs/slaves I just see what feels right..if I get that connection ..I go with it.. I have had 3 experiences with females.. One was strictly on-line another was a best friend "girlfriend" of mine whom we played many times together and I have also directed or Dommed both her and her boyfriend at the same time..which was a lot of fun I might add..and the other fem sub was for three yrs off n on..
I have found that it is a little different for Me with females as we are very complex creatures and there's a lot of emotional things to consider as well as the differences in thinking..I do find there's a lack of female submissives..I would enjoy experiencing more with females but, there really aren't that many compared to the male submissives...I would like to hear more thoughts on this as it is a great topic!
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Jan 15 2008, 11:19 pm - Replied by: Mistress_Elle


It seems to me, from what I've experienced, that since even friend ships with men and women are different, then the dynamic might be different in a D/s situation as well. I don't know if I could get into some things with a female in the same way I do with a male because of maybe the way I'm programmed to think or something. Kooky, huh?
I love the control, almost as much as you love to give it to me.
Jan 16 2008, 9:48 am - Replied by: Mistress_Sanndy


I have had 2 female subbies in the 8 years i have been in the lifestyle and there is a differance ,,Men are easy , they tend to think with the little head instead of the big one , I had a very close connection with both females , friendship and domination , we use to just hang out and chat go to the movies and go clubing together ,,you couldn't tell by looks she was sub, however behind closed doors it was different , to Have a beautifull woman serving your every need was such a rush for me, It's hard to Explain , it's more than a Dom/Sub realionship , Moving took me away from both of them ,,I look forward to the day I put anothe Female in my Stable. ( No guys , don't try to pretend to be a female to get to know me)
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Jan 16 2008, 8:10 pm - Replied by: Mistress_Elle


I'm so glad I posted this topic, it's so interesting!
A while ago I met a sub who is bisexual and is active in the women only groups. I think I might give it a try soon, it's a munch anyway not a play party, I guess I could meet someone really cool. :)
I love the control, almost as much as you love to give it to me.
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