i recently watched an episode of "House, M.D." which featured a patient who was a submissive man, completely under the control of a dominant woman. He was so weak and controlled that he was unable to make medical decisions for himself, and looked to his loving domme to make all the decisions for him.

This led me to think how weak a man could become in a femdom relationship, and more importantly how much control i will lose, or am expected to lose, in my relationship with Goddess Lycia. Your tapes and videos make me feel weaker every time i watch or listen, Goddess, and i definitely feel the loss of control. i love the feeling of vulnerability. It arouses me and increases my feelings of adoration. On the other hand, i would not want to become like the character in the television show, unless You would want me to be that way. i enjoy my autonomy when not talking to You, and like to feel like a strong little soldier for You in other dealings in my life. In addition, i have to deal with strong women in my business life and it might be counterproductive for me to appear or behave submissively toward them. My question is whether it is difficult for men to function adequately in business life when they are being trained in vulnerability by their dommme. i do not presently feel any conflict about this, but the television show made me wonder. Maybe it was just t.v.

I don't know the specifics with hypnosis.. but I do know that often times, not with just FemDom/malesub but MaleDom/femsub the inability to make important decisions can be lost. This usually happens when any decisions are taken completely away from the sub/slave. I've posted elsewhere about a sub who's house was on fire, she didn't know what to do, except to call her Master at work, he of course told her to get off the phone with him and call 911 and get the hell out of the house.

I, for one wouldn't want my sub/slave to be so mindless that they have no ability to think for themselves and make wise important decisions. I am not, nor will I be, around him 24/7, I can't be with him every waking/sleeping moment. He needs to be able to make important decisions for himself. Ones that could be the difference between life and death. His well being is always my concern, therefore ensuring he has the ability to make those decisions, intact.

Just My 2 cents :)

MsQueenEvil wrote: I don't know the specifics with hypnosis.. but I do know that often times, not with just FemDom/malesub but MaleDom/femsub the inability to make important decisions can be lost. This usually happens when any decisions are taken completely away from the sub/slave. I've posted elsewhere about a sub who's house was on fire, she didn't know what to do, except to call her Master at work, he of course told her to get off the phone with him and call 911 and get the hell out of the house. I, for one wouldn't want my sub/slave to be so mindless that they have no ability to think for themselves and make wise important decisions. I am not, nor will I be, around him 24/7, I can't be with him every waking/sleeping moment. He needs to be able to make important decisions for himself. Ones that could be the difference between life and death. His well being is always my concern, therefore ensuring he has the ability to make those decisions, intact. Just My 2 cents :)

I so agree MQE, I would not want a slave to be so mindless like that of a drone..I want My sub/slave to be strong willed, minded, and when I am not around for sure showing everyone how proud, smart, and also show his adoration by being respectful, kind, courteous..and knowledgeable.. I wouldn't find a sub/slave with no mind of his own very appealing and I frankly would lose interest..
I can learn a lot from My subs/slaves as well as Me being the teacher too..

mistressannastasia32 wrote: MsQueenEvil wrote: I don't know the specifics with hypnosis.. but I do know that often times, not with just FemDom/malesub but MaleDom/femsub the inability to make important decisions can be lost. This usually happens when any decisions are taken completely away from the sub/slave. I've posted elsewhere about a sub who's house was on fire, she didn't know what to do, except to call her Master at work, he of course told her to get off the phone with him and call 911 and get the hell out of the house. I, for one wouldn't want my sub/slave to be so mindless that they have no ability to think for themselves and make wise important decisions. I am not, nor will I be, around him 24/7, I can't be with him every waking/sleeping moment. He needs to be able to make important decisions for himself. Ones that could be the difference between life and death. His well being is always my concern, therefore ensuring he has the ability to make those decisions, intact. Just My 2 cents :) I so agree MQE, I would not want a slave to be so mindless like that of a drone..I want My sub/slave to be strong willed, minded, and when I am not around for sure showing everyone how proud, smart, and also show his adoration by being respectful, kind, courteous..and knowledgeable.. I wouldn't find a sub/slave with no mind of his own very appealing and I frankly would lose interest.. I can learn a lot from My subs/slaves as well as Me being the teacher too..

Afuckingmen!!!!

I agree with the two Ladies who previously posted. It is important that you are able to make decisions for yourself. Like we were discussing the other day, luvtease, how I do not like submissive men who are spineless; if they are going to be with Me, they need to be real people with their own ideas and likes/dislikes. Of course, I enjoy shaping/molding/conditioning one to be a better, even more functionable slave for Me. That doesn't mean losing who you are.

MistressLycia wrote: I agree with the two Ladies who previously posted. It is important that you are able to make decisions for yourself. Like we were discussing the other day, luvtease, how I do not like submissive men who are spineless; if they are going to be with Me, they need to be real people with their own ideas and likes/dislikes. Of course, I enjoy shaping/molding/conditioning one to be a better, even more functionable slave for Me. That doesn't mean losing who you are.

-Totally agree's-

I want a submissive, not an invalid...

MzVixen wrote: I want a submissive, not an invalid...

Expressed perfectly!!!