Well for starters. this is my first blog on this site. I plan on writing one once a week, maybe more depending on time. Mostly to try and get a little more exposure and let some of the women on this site in on myself.

I would say that I've been in this lifestyle long enough to see what trends the "fake" people have and this includes both the submissive as well as the Dominant side as well. Most of them are obvious and word gets around quick that they are "fake" and they kind of fade away. Others, simply prey on newbies and will forever get their way. Dominant men that are "fake" tend just to be abusive and prey on women (or men in some cases) that are naive and think it to be our lifestlye. The one issue I see the most since becoming a submissive (I was a Dom for several years), is women that want money as a sign that the submissive is a willing individual. Wait...what?!

Many of the Dominant women I see claim to be a part of this lifestyle, but all I see is someone preying on dumb and otherwise desperate submissive men. Now, I'm not saying that it isn't a legitimate fetish, because in this lifestlye you cannot judge without being a major hypocrite. However, many of these women are just saying "pay me" and nothing other than some harsh words come in return. Again, what?!

It's one thing to be financially dominated and be in a relationship that is the norm. After all, I've seen "some" women (and I stress some) that spend all the guy's money anyway and it's nothing to do with the lifestyle. The guy expects to have his money spent, but that is how he wants his relationship to be. What I fail to understand is that so many women "claim" to be dominant and just demand money with no strings attached. Now I understand that some want tribute, but somewhere along the line, a few people took advantage and just want the tribute.

Now, maybe its not my thing, but it's not about the money. I show appreciation (not financially), but because I believe it's worth it. Hell, you're beautiful and I think you deserve something nice. Maybe it sounds selfish, but it's not. If I wanted to spend money on some random person, I'd donate to charity (no, not a stripper  ). Maybe I'm wrong, but it's not my thing and that's my 2 cents.