Recently, A and me discussed the possibility of me changing my surname to Hers by deed poll if i remain in Her ownership.
One complication is that She has already taken Her husband's name, as was more or less expected when they married. We/we were not sure, in view of this, whether i should adopt Her married name or Her original one. The former would be a bold statement showing that i belonged to Her household, but could be taken as indicating allegiance to her husband, while the latter would not make Our/our connection so obvious but would link me directly to Her.
What do O/others think?
paul
