Bondage - the restriction that sets you free!
For those of you that have had a real time bondage experience with a good expert or even a more then talented Mistress or Master, know what I am talking about.
When you are placed in bondage, be it leather restraints, basic rope bondage or the very highly esteemed Shibary styled rope bondage, you loose yourself very quickly in a space that most of us call the "sub-space".
As the Ropes are slowly being fastened around your body and your feeling of absolute helplessness engulfes you, you have no resource any further but to surrender to the "hug" you receive. You can no longer move, you are now at the "mercy" of your superior, your Mistress/Master or your Owner. Anything can be done to you at this point, and if you are in this position I hope that the person that is controlling your world now is someone you trust with your life.
Why do I say that there is freedom in bondage? Simple, beforehand you could have helped yourself. If your fantasy, your desire is something that you feel a bit guilty about, you could have just gotten up and walked away. You no longer have that option now. You are there, for better or for worst. All you can do now at this point is "lay back" and enjoy the ride.
Your entire being becomes one big nerve ending. You can do nothing but feel, experience and enjoy. Yes, you are as helpless as a babe and you will love it. Depending on how you are tied up, your sensitive areas may be very exposed.
Have you ever been more excited then when you were scared to death at the same time?
What if she leaves me here?
What if she decides to call others over and show me off like this to all her friends?
What if she uses that new flogger she just bought the other day?
What if she will torture me and I can not handle it?
What if....
The list is endless and yes the mindfuck comes to play as well. But you are no to blame in the end. Afterall, you may as well enjoy whatever comes your way, you couldn't help yourself. You poor little slave, hanging there, sitting there, tied up and waiting.
The freedom comes from no longer having to take the responsibility for your naughty pleasures during that time. You have discussed the options well ahead (at least I hope you are that smart), but you have no choice in what will be done and when. You are now just another toy for her enjoyment.
Besides that, have you ever looked at the wonderful handywork of a rope artisan? I love to do CBT, I adore the picture I can make on a nice long hard cock with rope. The rope has to be lined up just perfect. I get almost lost in making those harnesses, never the same way twice. I love it. For those I enjoy the bigger cocks better, more space to work with and just think of all the clamps, weights, wheels and wax.....
But I degress, sorry everyone! A simple little thing - get tied to a bed, face down, blind folded and gagged.... Really pay attention to what happens to your mind as your Goddess walks behind you, as you hear the rushel of the items being picked up!
Well, don't just sit there...Give it a try!
A very important note:
Always make sure that your submissives / slaves circulation is ok. Slaves, do not just sit there not saying anything when your limbs fall asleep. If your Mistress for any reason does not notice it, this is the time to speak up!!!!
If you are gagged, then make sure your slave has a ball or something that can drop in his hand. People with Diabetes and back issues need to be extremely careful with full body or restrictive bondage. If you are new to it, or are longdistant training and have your Mistress issue you orders on how to do the ties, make sure you read up on the subject first.
If I do a session that involves bondage, even just cbt, I always order them to be on the cam with me. Them on the cam not me and they are on the Phone or their mic as well. This way I can oversee it better. I check temperatures, coloration and breathing. Better safe then sorry!
If you are prone to passing out or seizures of any kind, please NEVER do bondage alone!!!!
