Martial Arts, Travel, hitting the beers and making people smile

The Big Lebwski, The Thin Red Line, Unforgiven, Donnie Darko, Alien, Aliens, Magnolia, City Of God, Battle Royale, Spirited Away

Jeff Buckley, The White Stripes, Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin, The Smiths, The Rolling Stones, The Black Keys, Ryan Adams, Jimi Hendrix, The Flaming Lips

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Orgasm Control/Denial, CBT (light for now, willing to push limits), chastity, strap-on training, queening, restraint, sensual, forced fem, spanking, medical, leather/rubber/pvc

Protocols, no sense of humour, people offering themselves or making demands out of the blue without getting to know one another first!

Finding my way around after some great domme/sub experience with a previous girlfriend, but I should emphasise, I'm NOT looking for online play. Sorry if that's what you're after, but I'm here to make friends and hopefully meet someone leading to real life play if everything feels right.

I don't see myself as "lifestyle". This is a sexual and psychological area i'm keen to explore, but not at the expense of connecting with someone to share wit, intelligent conversation, and ideally, if things should work out one day, a kiss and a cuddle (is that allowed on here? it's the one "kink" not listed!!)

So if there are any genuine people out there in the London area, who could be interested by a young, attractive and intelligent sub, and want to skip over the pretensions and time-wasting games that can be played on this site and actually get to know somebody with similar interests, then I'd love to hear from you