D/s, flagellation (whips, paddles, canes, hair brushes, etc) bondage, enemas, financial domination, edge play including fire and TENS unit play, CBT, nipple torture, sensory deprivation,strapon play, forced feminization, humiliation, just to name a few. Check out my site for session info http://www.darkmistressdaniella.com

I fancy referring to myself as "compassionately sadistic". I feel for the emotional pain and epmtiness of a sub/fetishist/masochist with no outlet. My enjoyment and happiness comes in filling that void and in turn making them a better whole. I think that a good domme is absolutely not a cruel, manhating, abusive witch of a female, but rather should be caring, have the ability to read someone's body for cues, always being competent and having complete control of herself and the situation. I believe her submissive should always feel safe and secure while in her care, thus making both parties more relaxed and willing to open themselves up to the experience. Do not mistake this for softness, however. I know too well that most subs are seeking real pain and humiliation and I will gleefully exert myself for hours bringing someone to the absolute apex of their personal limitations. There is no better feeling than to have broken someone down into a quivering, sobbing, albeit utterly grateful mess on my floor.