costuming and clothing design, reading, writing, biking, modeling

Shaolin Soccer, The Usual Suspects, Perhaps Love, Cowboy Bebop, Nausicca, In The Mood For Love, Ichi the Killer, Three Extremes, Dumplings, Hot Fuzz, Attack the Gas Station, The Banquet, The Boxer From Shantung, Immortal, Bright Future, Harold and Kumar Go To White Castle, The Host, Moon Child, Electric Dragon 80000V

The Tea Party, Sia, Apoptygma Berzerk, Rob Dougan, Tori Amos, Atmosphere, Brother Ali, Pain, OK Go, The Cure, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, The Atomic Fireballs

A Wrinkle in Time sequence, The Dark Cauldron series, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Gods Themselves, Women Who Kill, The Ghost Map, The Botany of Desire, Freakonomics, anything by Jane Yolen

bondage (cuffs, shibari, partial suspension, predicament), forced chastity, flogging, paddling, caning, sensory overstimulation, sensory deprivation, hot wax, ice, strap-on play, retro clothes and cute lingerie, stockings, heels, garter belts, human laundry boys, humiliation, purple wand, corsetry, cupping, puppy boys, servants

drama-rama, scat, anything with those who cannot or do not consent, ugly gossip

I'm a graduate student, longtime kinkster, and proud dominant Goddess. I've been fascinated by bondage, S&M, and power play since I could remember. When I was younger, I used to enjoy taking the finial off the lamp in my bedroom and touching the hot metal to My nipples. I knew this was weird and different, and I also knew that it gave Me intense pleasure. I'm in a long-term relationship with My lover, the H/he to My M/me. We are both switches, delighting in both sadistic practices and stints as pain sluts.

I am here in part from curiosity and in part because I have some fantasies which I cannot fulfill or do not wish to fulfill with My lover. He has no interest in sissification nor hardcore CBT nor chastity. I also have no interest in inflicting chastity on him, as I prefer to sex with him to sex alone, and I need them both frequently. Despite My interest, I do ask for some sort of tribute if you wish to have some sort of relationship with Me or interact with Me via webcam outside the MyDommeSpace chatroom. As I am a graduate student, My time is quite limited, so asking Me to spend more than a few minutes with you per day requires some sort of consideration for My time. I do not have a set rate for tribute; that depends to a huge extent on what your desires are and how well they mesh with My desires. I will not quote you a price; each circumstance is quite unique, and each individual has differing financial resources. I have no desire to bankrupt you, though I would not mind making you suffer a little. If you desire, you may certainly peruse My wantlist (http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/2EH0KUCVGBKP6/); perhaps it will tell you more about Me.

If you'd like to talk to Me over the phone, you may do so via NiteFlirt - http://www.niteflirt.com/CheshireDreams

You should always feel free to contact Me through MyDommeSpace. Respectful emails are much more likely to receive a prompt response, but it is not necessary to address Me as "Mistress" or "Goddess." A simple Ms. Chesh will do quite well for the moment; addressing Me with an honorific is for when W/we have established a Domme/sub relationship. And no, a potential Domme/sub relationship does not have to be in the cards for you to talk with Me. I would be more than happy to answer questions and discuss experiences with you as long as you are curious and respectful.